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MEETINGS START WITH:

The Healing Intention - “There are no perfect processes or perfect people, so we come together to listen, to share, to learn, and to heal.”

MEETINGS END WITH:

The Contentment Intention - “Self, grant me the contentment to accept the things I cannot change, the strength to change the things I can, and the understanding to know the difference.”


Please note, The Contentment Intention is based upon The Serenity Prayer, originally written by Reinhold Niebuhr in 1932. Consistent with our 4-steps, it has been adapted to remove all religious references, including the directing of the intention to ourselves instead of God.


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WHAT ARE OUR MEETING TIMES AND FORMATS? We hold meetings every Sunday from 1pm to 3pm EST, and there are never any fees, dues, or donations.

Every month we will rotate through the following meeting formats:

1st Sunday = Step Study
see free downloadable materials below

2nd Sunday = Open Share
an opportunity to share your survivor story

3rd Sunday = Guest Speaker
a special presentation on recovery

4th Sunday = Exercise Workshop
see free downloadable materials below

5th Sunday = Open Share
an opportunity to share your survivor story
when there is a 5th Sunday



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WHAT MATERIALS DO WE NEED FOR MEETINGS? Below are the standard instructions and readings, often referred to as SCRIPTS, that we use during our support group meetings. You can download them for free.


MEETING INSTRUCTIONS:
read by host and co-hosts

Beginning Of Meeting - every meeting
uploaded 04/28/21


End Of Meeting - every meeting
uploaded 04/28/21


Step Study - 1st Sundays
uploaded 04/28/21


Open Share - 2nd Sundays
uploaded 04/28/21


Guest Speaker - 3rd Sundays
uploaded 04/28/21


Exercise Workshop - 4th Sundays
uploaded 04/28/21


Open Share - 5th Sundays
when there is a 5th Sunday
uploaded 04/28/21


Interventions - as needed
uploaded 04/28/21



STEP STUDY READINGS:
from the book Children Of Pain

Chapter 4 - RECOGNIZE
uploaded 04/02/21

Chapter 5 - REACH
uploaded 04/02/21

Chapter 6 - REMEMBER
uploaded 04/02/21

Chapter 7 - RECLAIM
uploaded 04/02/21


EXERCISE WORKSHOP INSTRUCTIONS:
based on the book Children Of Pain

The Empty Picture Frame
uploaded 04/28/21

Mosaic Patterning
uploaded 04/28/21

Keep It, Change It, Leave It
uploaded 04/28/21


INTERESTING ARTICLES:
for you to read

Gaslighting
HuffPost 04/27/21

Trauma Bonding
PACE UK 2021

Dissociative Disorders
Matthew Tull, PhD 2020


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for more information
contact robert at
trafn@yahoo.com